This is good, but there’s a lot of weight holding human beings back,
“The more clear our goals become, the easier and more powerful each no becomes. Saying “no” takes practice, and it may backfire, but to me it’s the ultimate sign of maturity”.
Just be grounded in what you believe because there will be backfire.
Bumping up against traditions and others expectations of how you are suppose to show up and be in life will surely happen. This can get uncomfortable and put stress on relationships that are important to you.