Maarten, I am with you on this, “We shouldn’t stop fighting, but neither should we hail strife as prerequisite for having a life worth living”.
The discussion of why or why not we think we are enough requires a greater look at what thought tells us.
What are we buying into and why? We live by borrowed thoughts from others.
Why? What other way is there to look at the way we see life? Who is interested in a change of context?