I love that part in the movie “Jerry Maguire” when Tom Cruise walks in to a group of ladies gossiping about men being losers and tries to explain himself.
And the actress Renee Zellweger responds to Cruise, “You had me at hello”!
This wasn’t easy for Cruise to break from his normal behavior patterns. He had many beliefs that he had bought into over a lifetime that kept him from deeper connections.
Cruise had a paradigm shift in what it meant to love another human being.
We can try and do a lot of different things but until we see life from a new perspective, we will continue to recycle the same emotions.