Time Stops For No-one
Two years ago my friend Nick and I talked of the anticipation of our girls playing college soccer. He was a top administrator of a hospital. He loved his Friday night cocktail events with his neighbors. He loved his wife. He loved his girls. He died of a stroke. He was 52. I remember the stories he told. He was a great storyteller. His youngest daughter plays college soccer today.
Change is inevitable in life. You may have a crisis that acts as a wake up call to what you are missing. A death in the family or a close friend you weren’t expecting. You may face a transition in your personal life or status that feels insurmountable. You may be unhappy or feel trapped in your business life but unable to see a solution. How you handle these hurdles makes an incredible difference in your quality of life.
When you desire to break free to a new level of clarity and purpose you need to dream. What are your priorities? What is most important to you? Business and retirement goals, leisure time for travel and your health? What legacy do you want to live and leave in the hearts of those you love?
Focus On Values
Start with your top three values. What areas of life would you like to improve? Are they relationship with spouse, with children or relationships with friends? What will change in your life because you have deepened these values on purpose? When you take action to create more of what you want in life you discover who you are and what you want. You create a life of prosperity.
You Have One Life To Live
Focus in one area of your life where you are open to bold possibilities, changes the results. Staying unfocused and unclear is a way of hiding your own true feelings and playing it safe. This path is a slow grind to a mediocre legacy.
Take Action On Purpose
Taking action to create the life you want on purpose has set backs. Failures, ugly points, uncertainty, the failure of your purpose to get noticed. All these are part of the journey to freedom. But in the end you have to want the freedom. In pursuing values you discover a life on purpose for you that makes a powerful impact on your journey.
Create Magic in Relationships
Marriage or a significant relationship is a great place to investigate. Challenge yourself to see you may not have the ideal connection you thought possible. Life has many turns and requires new insights to figure what a deeper connection together can mean.
My husband and I were on a path to nowhere two and a half years ago. The two of us were not aligned. Our agendas on what mattered most in life conflicted with one another. This was a fearful place to be. Life became like walking a tight rope without a net.
Since then we have made major leaps in deepening connection. Often, when you have success in life you lean in and prioritize what is working. Things get left out that seem worrisome to address. This has a cost.
Dare to dream that success includes an intimacy to life when you have someone to share it with. We did. We are building something awesome.
Dance With The Fear For Fulfillment
This happens because you are willing to embrace the fear and uncertainty of the unknown. To review what distracts you from focusing on your top values. To stop what steals your joy of creating a life of prosperity beyond wealth and status. This is the path to fulfillment.
Learn what you are missing.
As Seth Godin says, “Learn to dance with fear and embrace the instinct to get better”.
Design the life you want on your own terms. Dig into your top values and engage a fresh and exciting new way to create prosperity in life.
Invest in a Life Coach
Make an investment in yourself. Engaging a coach to help you uncover gold nuggets in your life fuels fulfillment. You feel energized with freedom and creativity to transform your life and your relationships. You alter the trajectory of how you live, love and create business to leave a meaningful legacy.
Want to discover freedom and creativity to live a life of prosperity. Reach me at Brenyammon@gmail.com to explore if Prosperity coaching is a fit for you.